On the evening of December 12 (12/12), 2023, I took a shower for a length of time that will surely be reflected in my water bill this month. I took my time indulging in my Princess Process™, a meticulously curated skincare routine and body moisturizing ritual that set the tone for the evening's activities. I adorned myself in some of my most girly and pink negligee, creating a harmonious blend of comfort and elegance and took a moment to style my hair. Armed with a candle, a fluffy pink pen, and my journal, I was fully prepared to embrace the new moon during the 12/12 portal, drawing upon the vibrant Sagittarius energy.
I penned a love letter to Heaven, a heartfelt composition that expressed gratitude for my current blessings, recognition of my personal growth, and aspirations for the future. This 'Christmas list' of sorts for the coming year was a symbolic gesture, bridging my hopes with the tangible act of writing. Upon completing my reflections, I carefully folded the page inward towards me, extinguished the candle's flame, and placed the letter alongside a mini jar of crystals beneath my pillow, infusing my dreams with intention and positivity.
This ritual was just one of three that I will partake in as I approach the New Year. Today, I am excited to share with you my preparation for New Year's Eve, offering insights for those who wish to join me in welcoming the year ahead with intention and style.
December 31st holds significant weight in my heart. It is a day of intentional celebration, a ceremonial acknowledgment of the year's experiences while simultaneously setting the stage for the New Year. All that I will be is thanks to all that I am and all that I was. There can be no abundance without expressing gratitude for the past & present, for this mindset of appreciation extends to every aspect of life, including moments of challenge. I believe that each experience offers a valuable lesson. This philosophy remained steadfast even in the wake of a tumultuous year like 2021, proving that our routines and rituals hold power, regardless of our circumstances.
My approach to welcoming the New Year is elegantly simple, yet profoundly impactful. It revolves around three core tenets: being surrounded by love, adorning myself in attire that brings joy, and partaking in culinary delights that resonate with my heritage and personal tastes. This trinity of love, style, and cuisine sets a glamorous tone for the incoming year.
Surrounded in Love
The essence of any New Year's celebration lies in the company we choose to keep. For me, it's about being enveloped in an atmosphere of love and warmth. Whether it's an intimate gathering with dear friends or a lively family reunion, the presence of loved ones elevates the occasion. Even if circumstances require a virtual connection, the act of ringing in the New Year with those who matter most fortifies the value of community, setting a precedent for the months to come.
Wearing Something I Love
My choice of attire for New Year's Eve is a reflection of my aspirations for the year ahead. Whether I opt for the sophistication of high-end pajamas or the glamour of a going-out dress, each option is a manifestation of the grace and poise I aim to embody. The Princess Process™, my bespoke beauty regimen, is a testament to the transformative power of self-care. The preparation starts with self-care rituals that make me feel pampered and radiant. A luxurious skincare routine is a must. Perhaps you might opt for a nourishing face mask and a hydrating serum to give that New Year's Eve glow. While I indulge in this elaborate routine, I am mindful that there are accessible and low-maintenance alternatives that can provide similar joy and confidence to others.
Eating Something I Love
Culinary traditions are a cornerstone of New Year's Eve, especially in Black American households. The menu is a homage to both heritage and personal favorites. Black-eyed peas, a symbol of prosperity, are a must. They're often cooked into a savory stew, brimming with flavor. Collard greens, representing wealth, are cooked until tender, sometimes with a hint of smoked meat for extra richness.
On years that I spent out, I loved going to high-end restaurants with multiple courses. As I savor these dishes, each bite is a reminder of where I come from and where I'm headed. It's a delicious way to start the year on a positive and hopeful note.
In these simple but significant rituals – love, style, and food – I find the essence of a perfect New Year's celebration. It's about honoring the past, embracing the present, and stepping into the future with confidence and joy. I welcome in abundance in all sectors of my life and establish that I am ready for it by my New Year's Eve routine.
Here's to a year filled with love, all things pretty, and delicious moments! #PrettyCommittee, thank you for the prettiest year yet.
-The HPIC 👑
I love this routine so much 🩷